For Brittany Cartwright, the Jax Taylor and Lori Krebs romance is not simply another post-separation relationship. Krebs was her publicist, friend and trusted confidante for more than a decade, making the news feel less like routine reality television fallout and more like a personal breach of trust.

Cartwright, 37, addressed the relationship directly in a video published by People on August 4, less than two weeks after reports confirmed that her estranged husband was dating Krebs.

“I never wish bad for anybody but they have to be absolutely miserable,” she said, “and I hope they are.”