Hayley Kiyoko’s advice to her younger self is not complicated, but it matters because she had to learn it in public. More than 10 years after releasing “Girls Like Girls,” the 35-year-old singer, actor and filmmaker said she would meet that earlier version of herself with compassion first.
“I would give her a big hug and hope that she had more self-confidence and self-love because we're so deserving of loving ourselves,” Kiyoko told E! News in May at The Asian American Foundation’s 2026 Heritage Month Awards Dinner. “It should not be this hard to love ourselves.”
Why “Girls Like Girls” still matters to Hayley Kiyoko
Kiyoko, known to many viewers from Lemonade Mouth, released “Girls Like Girls” in 2015. The song quickly became a touchstone for queer fans, not because it treated same-sex attraction as a grand mystery, but because it stated the feeling plainly. Girls like girls, as the song says, like boys do. Sometimes clarity is the whole point.
Looking back, Kiyoko said the release started in a harder, less certain period of her life.
“It's been a really beautiful journey because at the time, I was uncomfortable with who I was,” she said. “Now I've been on stage singing ‘Girls Like Girls’ waving the rainbow flag.”



